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Body Language is the language of the body. It is a language where there is no exchange of words. It is a form of non- verbal communication which consists of body, postures, gestures, facial expressions and eye movements. These signals are entirely sent and interpreted at the subconscious level.

Body Language

Body Language can provide clues as to the attitude or state of mind of a person. It may indicate aggression, attentiveness, boredom, relaxed state, pleasure, amusement and intoxication among many other clues. The technique of reading people is used frequently. Mirroring the body language of people indicates that they are understood. This happens majority of the times in an interview. Body Language signals may have a goal, other than communication.

One of the most basic and powerful body language signals is when a person crosses his or her arms across the chest. This can indicate that a person is putting up an unconscious barrier between themselves and others. It can also indicate that the person’s arms are cold. When the overall situation is amicable, it can mean that a person is deeply thinking about what is being discussed. But in a serious or confrontational situation, it will mean that the person is expressing opposition. This is especially so if the person is leaning away from the speaker. A harsh or blank expression often indicates outright hostility (unfriendly behaviour).

Consistent eye contact can indicate that a person is thinking positively of what the speaker is saying. It can also mean that the other person does not trust the speaker enough to take their eyes off the speaker. Lack of eye contact can indicate negativity.

In BM English speaking Course each participant has to do Public speaking practice 20 times on various topics and a professional trainer corrects Grammar, pronunciation, Body Language, trains him/her to speak fluently with confidence.

Improving your Body Language can make a big difference in your people skills, attractive and general mood.

There is no specific advice on how to use your body language. What you do, can be interpreted in may ways, depending on who you are talking to.

You will probably use your Body Language differently while talking to your boss compared to when you talk to your friend.

These are some communication interpretations of Body Language and often more effective ways to communicate with your body.

First to change your body language, you must be aware of your Body Language. Notice how you sit, stand, use your hands and legs, what do you do while talking to someone. You need to practice in front of the mirror. This will give a good feedback about yourself.

Another tip is to close your eyes and visualize how you would stand and sit to feel confident.

Having a good body language can eliminate some of the flaws that an individual has, but it can not transform you as an individual. A combination of adequate Grammar, Good command over English as a language and ample Confidence to make a difference can only transform you as a person.